10 Traits That High-Quality Women Look For In A Man

It's not what you've been led to believe.

When it comes to what women look for in a man, there’s a lot of noise out there—most of it misleading.

The truth is, not all women are the same, and what a high-quality, virtuous woman seeks is vastly different from what red-pill gurus preach. If you follow their advice, you will learn how to manipulate superficial women for quick, unsatisfactory sex, contribute to the decay of society, and end up empty, lost, and regretful. Is that what you want? Or do you want to find a woman of good values to build a beautiful family with?

It’s important to make a distinction: the traits that attract virtuous women are not the same as those that appeal to superficial or degenerate women. The rules are different, and if you want to find a good woman, who brings peace to your life, and develop a relationship built on substance and longevity, these are the qualities you need to cultivate.

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10. Experience

No, not sexual experience

Experience is correlated to competence. Women of virtue want a man they can follow as the leader of their family, household, and community. Experience in a man all but proves he’s competent enough to do so. This is why women run from immature men: deep down, they know they are not fit enough to lead other men, and even less so a family.

Experience gives women a reason to trust a man. It showcases the competence and wisdom that only years of being in the trenches of life build. Now, experience is not necessarily correlated to age. A young man can be very experienced, if he’s spent his short years learning, practicing, building, and striving. The opposite is also true: an old man can remain immature at heart, if he has spent his life running from suffering, addicted to comfort, and scared to take risks.

Experience comes with struggle and with the voluntary search for improvement, not with age.

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9. Passion

In an age of superficiality, numbness and boredom, nothing stands out more than a man of true passion.

Few are the men who dare to experience life fully, who reject fear and live intensely, even if that leads to suffering and pain. Women love a man who can speak from his heart, who can excite them to live and love life, and who can maintain a spirit of hope even during the dark times we are living.

Passion signals courage: You will stand out if you are a man who still has some fire within, and who’s not afraid to let it burn.

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8. Honesty

This probably comes as a shock to some of you. I know I was shocked when I realized this. Most “dating” gurus convince you that you cannot be honest with your woman and that you need to be confusing her with a web of lies to maintain power over her.

Simply put, if you need to be dishonest with a woman in order to try and attract her, that just means the real you is not good enough.

Honesty signals courage and confidence. Courage to show your true colors and accept the consequences. Confidence to put yourself out there without a mask and without desperately needing to gain approval. An honest man is a man she can feel safe with, and that is priceless for a woman.